Comments on: What the lack of conversation / social skills did to my life http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/ Thu, 07 Apr 2011 11:44:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: LavendarSkies1 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-221 LavendarSkies1 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 19:33:38 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-221 Thanks for this video. I can relate all too well. I was never able to acquire social skills either, and it really sucks knowing how far behind I am from my peers. Great vid. Thanks for this video. I can relate all too well. I was never able to acquire social skills either, and it really sucks knowing how far behind I am from my peers. Great vid.

]]> By: minkaboo http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-220 minkaboo Mon, 14 Dec 2009 18:36:33 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-220 I just dated a guy who is self-described as a "loner." I was the nice girl and he rejected me and broke my heart. I wanted to help him and befriend him w/o any agendas, but he was so rude and demeaning, he drove me away. If a nice person tries to befriend u, pleaz take a risk to give ppl a chance, to trust, to make mistakes & fix things along the way. What's 1 more risk of rejection among a pile of thousands! And we ALL could relate to social rejections/anxiety. Thanx 4 the video. I just dated a guy who is self-described as a “loner.” I was the nice girl and he rejected me and broke my heart. I wanted to help him and befriend him w/o any agendas, but he was so rude and demeaning, he drove me away. If a nice person tries to befriend u, pleaz take a risk to give ppl a chance, to trust, to make mistakes & fix things along the way. What’s 1 more risk of rejection among a pile of thousands! And we ALL could relate to social rejections/anxiety. Thanx 4 the video.

]]> By: pristinewaters http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-219 pristinewaters Mon, 14 Dec 2009 18:14:16 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-219 Thank you =) Thank you =)

]]> By: pristinewaters http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-218 pristinewaters Mon, 14 Dec 2009 17:18:48 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-218 Thanks. To give people a chance - I will always try to remember that =) The thing with people like me is that we've had such bad experience with 'society' that we kind of treat 'other people' as a lump and see them in a bad light before we even get to know them as individuals. Sure, there are many people out there that mistreated me for being who I am; but I guess to lose faith in everyone and rejecting them, without even giving them a chance, isn't the way to go. Thanks. To give people a chance – I will always try to remember that =)

The thing with people like me is that we’ve had such bad experience with ’society’ that we kind of treat ‘other people’ as a lump and see them in a bad light before we even get to know them as individuals. Sure, there are many people out there that mistreated me for being who I am; but I guess to lose faith in everyone and rejecting them, without even giving them a chance, isn’t the way to go.

]]> By: minkaboo http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-217 minkaboo Mon, 14 Dec 2009 16:21:42 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-217 Have u ever heard of a course called "Landmark Forum"? Check it out, they have introductory class where they describe what the course is about. I'm not advertising w/ them, but this course helped me out alot. Feel free to ask what it is. U basically get to be the way u'd like to b in real life during this course, and it sets u to a straighter path. Yes, plz try to believe that ur beautiful, thoughtful, and sensitive. Peace. Have u ever heard of a course called “Landmark Forum”? Check it out, they have introductory class where they describe what the course is about. I’m not advertising w/ them, but this course helped me out alot. Feel free to ask what it is. U basically get to be the way u’d like to b in real life during this course, and it sets u to a straighter path. Yes, plz try to believe that ur beautiful, thoughtful, and sensitive. Peace.

]]> By: thelagerking83 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-216 thelagerking83 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 15:31:15 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-216 part 2? part 2?

]]> By: sabbathfreak666 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-215 sabbathfreak666 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 15:04:37 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-215 i actually am this person, but i dont cry about it, i have one attitude about it which is, fuck em, i dont need a 100 friend list on my phone to feel normal, iam who iam i actually am this person, but i dont cry about it, i have one attitude about it which is, fuck em, i dont need a 100 friend list on my phone to feel normal, iam who iam

]]> By: Golionel http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-214 Golionel Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:18:37 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-214 Hi!! my life has been pretty similar, now that i´m aware of that, i´m trying to improve my comunication, i do social activities as acting, and first of all understand and love. Thanks for you video. Hi!! my life has been pretty similar, now that i´m aware of that, i´m trying to improve my comunication, i do social activities as acting, and first of all understand and love. Thanks for you video.

]]> By: metalman9992 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-213 metalman9992 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 13:51:22 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-213 About this video and that; you say you didn't develop socially or developed the ability to iniate or sustain a conversation in this, well those skills come natural I'm thinking you might have social anxiety where you think you are to incompetent to do any of this/or you might have autism where you couldn't grasp those skills, sometimes people don't develop socially (as normal people), but they do develop communication. About this video and that; you say you didn’t develop socially or developed the ability to iniate or sustain a conversation in this, well those skills come natural I’m thinking you might have social anxiety where you think you are to incompetent to do any of this/or you might have autism where you couldn’t grasp those skills, sometimes people don’t develop socially (as normal people), but they do develop communication.

]]> By: metalman9992 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/comment-page-1/#comment-212 metalman9992 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 13:37:51 +0000 http://skillful.com/what-the-lack-of-conversation-social-skills-did-to-my-life/61/#comment-212 "Thanks. To give people a chance - I will always try to remember that =)" It's all about the first impression which creates the opportunity to create the chance, that's how I got a chance with people I gave off good first impressions, see that's what creates the image in the other person head, I made good first impressions but than I fucked up and lost them as being someone. Most people can be mistreated cause of race/ethnic orgin not because of the way they communicate with others. “Thanks. To give people a chance – I will always try to remember that =)”
It’s all about the first impression which creates the opportunity to create the chance, that’s how I got a chance with people I gave off good first impressions, see that’s what creates the image in the other person head, I made good first impressions but than I fucked up and lost them as being someone. Most people can be mistreated cause of race/ethnic orgin not because of the way they communicate with others.

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